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		<title>Comment on How to Train a Domestic Helper by Lisa</title>
		<link>http://lisatong.com/index.php/2009/04/23/how-to-train-a-domestic-helper/comment-page-1/#comment-3840</link>
		<dc:creator>Lisa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Apr 2013 01:55:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Anjali,

I agree to your point about not having drama. While in an ideal world, we should treat them like part of the family, there comes a line to how much emotional support and therapy you give them. Like all employees, they are there to help in a productive way. Unproductive and even disruptive behaviour is a chore on everyone (including the children indirectly). I wish you the best of luck in your journey and in time, you&#039;ll find someone that works. As for the quickly disappearing food items, that&#039;s a hard one to gauge. For me, I tell my helper that everything in the kitchen is for her to eat and use as well, but for herself only (not for friends, or to take out with her and ship home). It should be a mutually trusted relationship and sounds like that&#039;s not happening for you :( All the best! Lisa]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Anjali,</p>
<p>I agree to your point about not having drama. While in an ideal world, we should treat them like part of the family, there comes a line to how much emotional support and therapy you give them. Like all employees, they are there to help in a productive way. Unproductive and even disruptive behaviour is a chore on everyone (including the children indirectly). I wish you the best of luck in your journey and in time, you&#8217;ll find someone that works. As for the quickly disappearing food items, that&#8217;s a hard one to gauge. For me, I tell my helper that everything in the kitchen is for her to eat and use as well, but for herself only (not for friends, or to take out with her and ship home). It should be a mutually trusted relationship and sounds like that&#8217;s not happening for you <img src='http://lisatong.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' />  All the best! Lisa</p>
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		<title>Comment on How to Train a Domestic Helper by Haly</title>
		<link>http://lisatong.com/index.php/2009/04/23/how-to-train-a-domestic-helper/comment-page-1/#comment-3835</link>
		<dc:creator>Haly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Apr 2013 10:47:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Lisa

Thanks for your very interesting and helpful article.
I am expecting my first child in one month and so we are hiring a helper (first time). 
Could you please send me your rules so that I have an examples of things that need to be precised for the helper ?

Thanks a lot in advance !]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Lisa</p>
<p>Thanks for your very interesting and helpful article.<br />
I am expecting my first child in one month and so we are hiring a helper (first time).<br />
Could you please send me your rules so that I have an examples of things that need to be precised for the helper ?</p>
<p>Thanks a lot in advance !</p>
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		<title>Comment on How to Hire a Domestic Helper in Hong Kong by Mey</title>
		<link>http://lisatong.com/index.php/2008/07/28/hiring-a-domestic-helper-in-hong-kong/comment-page-3/#comment-3834</link>
		<dc:creator>Mey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Apr 2013 14:44:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hello Lisa, great article. I am also in the process of getting a maid. I should be so thankful if you would send me a copy of your rules. May i have one in Bahasa indonesia too?

Thank you.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Lisa, great article. I am also in the process of getting a maid. I should be so thankful if you would send me a copy of your rules. May i have one in Bahasa indonesia too?</p>
<p>Thank you.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How to Hire a Domestic Helper in Hong Kong by Haly</title>
		<link>http://lisatong.com/index.php/2008/07/28/hiring-a-domestic-helper-in-hong-kong/comment-page-3/#comment-3829</link>
		<dc:creator>Haly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Apr 2013 05:39:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi thanks a lot for this interesting and very useful article!
I am going to hire a helper for the first time as I am working and am having my first child.
Could you please send me your rules ?
Thanks  a lot in advance !]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi thanks a lot for this interesting and very useful article!<br />
I am going to hire a helper for the first time as I am working and am having my first child.<br />
Could you please send me your rules ?<br />
Thanks  a lot in advance !</p>
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		<title>Comment on How to Hire a Domestic Helper in Hong Kong by Ann Lee</title>
		<link>http://lisatong.com/index.php/2008/07/28/hiring-a-domestic-helper-in-hong-kong/comment-page-3/#comment-3828</link>
		<dc:creator>Ann Lee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Apr 2013 14:39:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi,

I enjoyed your article immensely. Would you mind sending me your 3 Page Rule? Thank you.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi,</p>
<p>I enjoyed your article immensely. Would you mind sending me your 3 Page Rule? Thank you.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How to Hire a Domestic Helper in Hong Kong by Carole</title>
		<link>http://lisatong.com/index.php/2008/07/28/hiring-a-domestic-helper-in-hong-kong/comment-page-3/#comment-3817</link>
		<dc:creator>Carole</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Dec 2012 09:24:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Lisa,

Thanks for sharing your experience. It&#039;s really usefull.
It would be great if you could send me a copy of your rules !

Thx once again]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Lisa,</p>
<p>Thanks for sharing your experience. It&#8217;s really usefull.<br />
It would be great if you could send me a copy of your rules !</p>
<p>Thx once again</p>
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		<title>Comment on How to Hire a Domestic Helper in Hong Kong by OM</title>
		<link>http://lisatong.com/index.php/2008/07/28/hiring-a-domestic-helper-in-hong-kong/comment-page-3/#comment-3816</link>
		<dc:creator>OM</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Dec 2012 18:56:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Lisa,

what a great article this is. Thanks for sharing your experience. It would be a blessing to have the set of rules you have  prepared.   

Many thanks in advance.  

OM]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Lisa,</p>
<p>what a great article this is. Thanks for sharing your experience. It would be a blessing to have the set of rules you have  prepared.   </p>
<p>Many thanks in advance.  </p>
<p>OM</p>
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		<title>Comment on How to Hire a Domestic Helper in Hong Kong by Shams</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shams</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Nov 2012 06:37:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I too would be happy to receive your set of rules 
Thanks]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I too would be happy to receive your set of rules<br />
Thanks</p>
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		<title>Comment on How to Hire a Domestic Helper in Hong Kong by Jess</title>
		<link>http://lisatong.com/index.php/2008/07/28/hiring-a-domestic-helper-in-hong-kong/comment-page-3/#comment-3796</link>
		<dc:creator>Jess</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Nov 2012 04:34:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks for the wonderful tips!  Would like to have a copy of your rule list as it&#039;s my first time trying to hire a helper, would be delighted to set out a set of rules.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the wonderful tips!  Would like to have a copy of your rule list as it&#8217;s my first time trying to hire a helper, would be delighted to set out a set of rules.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Children&#8217;s Chore Charts by Ruth</title>
		<link>http://lisatong.com/index.php/2009/01/10/childrens-chore-charts/comment-page-1/#comment-3785</link>
		<dc:creator>Ruth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Nov 2012 18:37:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks so much!  I was looking for a simple picture chore chart and this one fit my needs perfectly!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks so much!  I was looking for a simple picture chore chart and this one fit my needs perfectly!</p>
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