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		<title>Comment on Contact Me by jeannie</title>
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		<dc:creator>jeannie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Aug 2011 05:35:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Can i ve a copy of your house rules?
Thanks</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Can i ve a copy of your house rules?<br />
Thanks</p>
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		<title>Comment on How to Hire a Domestic Helper in Hong Kong by Lavi</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lavi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Aug 2011 07:49:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow! This article is just what i needed. Tomorrow, we are interviewing for a DH for the first time and your list of questions is going to come in real handy. Thank you so much. 
I would also love to see your list of rules as this would be our fist experience having a live in maid and have no idea what to expect.
Thanks again.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow! This article is just what i needed. Tomorrow, we are interviewing for a DH for the first time and your list of questions is going to come in real handy. Thank you so much.<br />
I would also love to see your list of rules as this would be our fist experience having a live in maid and have no idea what to expect.<br />
Thanks again.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Contact Me by vincci</title>
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		<dc:creator>vincci</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Aug 2011 09:21:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I will have a new helper next week and think it would be good to have a schedule and rules and google about it.  Saw your website and very appreciate you sharing your experience!  Do you have a written list of rules or schedules that can share?  Thanks in advance!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I will have a new helper next week and think it would be good to have a schedule and rules and google about it.  Saw your website and very appreciate you sharing your experience!  Do you have a written list of rules or schedules that can share?  Thanks in advance!</p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Aug 2011 12:40:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This has been so much help, we are expecting our first DH and are now starting to write rules, schedules and instructions on how to do basic things (cleaning etc). Would love to have a copy of your rules. Thanks heaps on all the helpful info!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This has been so much help, we are expecting our first DH and are now starting to write rules, schedules and instructions on how to do basic things (cleaning etc). Would love to have a copy of your rules. Thanks heaps on all the helpful info!!</p>
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		<dc:creator>Gaurav</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Jul 2011 17:50:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i also love my vaio e-white.
it is the best laptop i ever had,better than all other brands like HP,Dell,lenovo etc.it looks cool and the performance is best.</description>
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it is the best laptop i ever had,better than all other brands like HP,Dell,lenovo etc.it looks cool and the performance is best.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Alexis Beasley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jul 2011 08:31:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nice feed. Do you have a connection with mobile and social media marketing pro Christian Dillstrom? He is recommending your story.</description>
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		<title>Comment on How to Hire a Domestic Helper in Hong Kong by seato</title>
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		<dc:creator>seato</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jul 2011 09:05:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>God this is helpful. Could I have a copy of your rules too please? Thanks!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>God this is helpful. Could I have a copy of your rules too please? Thanks!</p>
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		<title>Comment on How to Hire a Domestic Helper in Hong Kong by JACQUELINE</title>
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		<dc:creator>JACQUELINE</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jul 2011 07:29:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>THANK YOU! I just bookmark this page. Thank you for taking time out to share your experience. It will sure help me. We are in the process to hire a DH as a new member of our family. Would you please kindly send me a copy of your &#039;rules&#039;? You are right, I should have things lay out before things happened... THANK YOU AGAIN!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>THANK YOU! I just bookmark this page. Thank you for taking time out to share your experience. It will sure help me. We are in the process to hire a DH as a new member of our family. Would you please kindly send me a copy of your &#8216;rules&#8217;? You are right, I should have things lay out before things happened&#8230; THANK YOU AGAIN!</p>
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		<title>Comment on How to Hire a Domestic Helper in Hong Kong by al</title>
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		<dc:creator>al</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Jun 2011 06:18:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>These helpers are not machines they are humans too, they have feelings and bad habits just like anyone. The best way to make helper&#039;s function properly would be your communication with each other, be in touch with her. If you want to be treated by others well, then treat others well too. Most helpers have children, they took this kind of job in desperation to support their families back home. Use those info&#039;s to get closer to your helpers (in a good sense of way) let them know you care for them and if they realize that, they would care for you too.

After some weeks with the helper. Point out what are her bad habits and never tolerate them, praise them as well if they do a job well done. If you don&#039;t like some of their results, tell them and teach them how would you like it done.

I have some friends who became helpers, most of them are simple minded and good people. I don&#039;t have the power to direct their lives but at least i care for them. When ever they go home and pour their life stories, experiences as a DH in HK its the same story as their employer. 

It will all come down to how you improve your relation with your helpers. 

3 Tips On Hiring a DH: 
1. Choose helpers who are working as a DH for their children and families. Not those who work for their own pleasure.
2. Observe their action, the more simple minded the helper the better.
3. Age, the younger the better teach them. Old one&#039;s are traditional, you&#039;d be into a lot of discussions(less work).




A Guy from Philippines
Amiel</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>These helpers are not machines they are humans too, they have feelings and bad habits just like anyone. The best way to make helper&#8217;s function properly would be your communication with each other, be in touch with her. If you want to be treated by others well, then treat others well too. Most helpers have children, they took this kind of job in desperation to support their families back home. Use those info&#8217;s to get closer to your helpers (in a good sense of way) let them know you care for them and if they realize that, they would care for you too.</p>
<p>After some weeks with the helper. Point out what are her bad habits and never tolerate them, praise them as well if they do a job well done. If you don&#8217;t like some of their results, tell them and teach them how would you like it done.</p>
<p>I have some friends who became helpers, most of them are simple minded and good people. I don&#8217;t have the power to direct their lives but at least i care for them. When ever they go home and pour their life stories, experiences as a DH in HK its the same story as their employer. </p>
<p>It will all come down to how you improve your relation with your helpers. </p>
<p>3 Tips On Hiring a DH:<br />
1. Choose helpers who are working as a DH for their children and families. Not those who work for their own pleasure.<br />
2. Observe their action, the more simple minded the helper the better.<br />
3. Age, the younger the better teach them. Old one&#8217;s are traditional, you&#8217;d be into a lot of discussions(less work).</p>
<p>A Guy from Philippines<br />
Amiel</p>
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		<dc:creator>Derrick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jun 2011 15:28:37 +0000</pubDate>
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